by Marc Shulman | Oct 2, 2026 | Relationships
Wanting to feel deeply connected to the people we love is one of the most human experiences there is. Yet sometimes what feels like closeness can actually be something more complicated—a dynamic where boundaries blur, individual identity fades, and two people become...
by Marc Shulman | Oct 2, 2026 | Anxiety, Anxiety and Stress
A patient once described her nightly routine to me this way: she’d get into bed exhausted, finally able to stop moving after a full day, and that stillness was exactly when her mind decided to start working. The email she forgot to send. The comment a coworker...
by Marc Shulman | Oct 1, 2026 | Uncategorized
A patient of mine, a Garden City attorney in her mid-thirties, spent almost a year seeing her internist for what she assumed was a stomach problem. Bloating, nausea before big meetings, occasional chest tightness she was sure was cardiac. Every test came back normal....
by Marc Shulman | Sep 18, 2026 | Relationships, Therapy
You’re in the middle of a disagreement with your partner—maybe about something small, like who forgot to call the plumber—and suddenly the intensity of your reaction surprises even you. Your heart races, your voice tightens, and you feel a familiar flood of...
by Marc Shulman | Sep 4, 2026 | Anxiety, Relationships
Sometimes the only way to manage overwhelming emotional pain is to step back—far back. If you’ve ever found yourself pulling away from family members, partners, or close friends not because you stopped caring, but because staying close felt unbearable,...